Is it better to have hold of everything or not???

Sometimes , It’s better to not have hold of everything coz while growing up I always needed that urge of getting hold of everything which later on led to attachment issues. Those baggages which were supposed to be thrown off, unknowingly I made crown of it. Sometimes its hard keeping up with other people who doesn’t understand who u are.

So the question arises should we hold on to them??? or let go of them????

My whole life I was constantly trying hard to understand this, but as we grow up we try to declutter these things. Constantly we fight decluttering the messes which none other than but we brought to ourselves, but what’s ahead?? how to deal with the pain? the aches?? no one teaches us that, wherein we should be taught of is how to “let go”.

Letting go is not that hard we say to others but when it comes to us why it directly or indirectly gets hard?

Living life all way, we get people who triggers the button within which we have tried hard to forget.

Maybe we choosed this life. we choosed between the choices which we knew from start what its gonna hold, but still instead of detachments we tend to choose attachments at the last. Instead of decluttering between, we choose to bring more clutters to our life which gives us not only pain but the traumas which are probably till deaths.

Some People comes with Expiry Date’s

It is always hard, Leaving your comfortzone. Leaving those places which you created with lots of efforts and time. But, Thats the whole point, right? To grow. We can’t stand in a place and be with everyone.

We loose people. They loose us. We loose our bonds. We create new bonds. That’s all part n parcel’s of our lives.

So if everything is created by universe, then why do we Get hurt?

We get hurt because of low acceptance. Its very important to accept the change. As it is said change is inevitable. If we start accepting and less sacrificing it will all be alright. We should accept the fact that whoever is in our life has to go someday. You can’t force people to stay or you can’t make them stay forcefully. So, if they stay forever they are your keepers and if they get expired they ain’t worthy.

So if they bring you happiness, Be happy. But if they brings you headache, trust me leaveee ASAP.

I think people comes with an expiry date. Everyone has a purpose to serve in everyothers life. Its just sometimes you are the purpose to make there messy life beautiful by creating happiness and by holding their hand and taking them out of the chaos. Sometimes they serve the purpose where they do the same. And if that’s unintentionally then its a cherry on the cake. Also once the purpose is comepleted they leave in silence. And you left with no choice rather than to accept that the person is gone.

So instead of running from the situations and your emotions and instead of ignoring the flags learn to accept the flags so that it becomes easy to accept that the person you are happily and madly in love with, will leave someday. And hence you have to accept so that it becomes less hurtful.

Its mandatory to keep your heart guarded, cause you never know what intentions of the other person are. So don’t hurt other’s and don’t even get hurted by others…

Tough situations?

Life sometimes puts you in such situations where you don’t find ways to back off. Its like how can you hurt someone intentionally?

Like sometimes you don’t even love a person you just love the way they love you and then the ego comes, what if they love the different person just the way they loved you.

Confusion right?

Thats what people are, confusing. They always want more and more things. But they forget that in the journey there should be a pause sometimes. Like there should be a stopping point where they should also understand what the other person feels or what they want.

We get confused between wants and needs. Like you should want a person and not need a person. Its like your need change according to the different situations but what stays or constant is the want.

You cant change the other person or you can’t control other person . All you can do is love them unconditionally and that too without expectation. And if they stick around thats love. Because it is rightly said, “love never dies, we learn to live without it…”