It is always hard, Leaving your comfortzone. Leaving those places which you created with lots of efforts and time. But, Thats the whole point, right? To grow. We can’t stand in a place and be with everyone.
We loose people. They loose us. We loose our bonds. We create new bonds. That’s all part n parcel’s of our lives.
So if everything is created by universe, then why do we Get hurt?
We get hurt because of low acceptance. Its very important to accept the change. As it is said change is inevitable. If we start accepting and less sacrificing it will all be alright. We should accept the fact that whoever is in our life has to go someday. You can’t force people to stay or you can’t make them stay forcefully. So, if they stay forever they are your keepers and if they get expired they ain’t worthy.
So if they bring you happiness, Be happy. But if they brings you headache, trust me leaveee ASAP.
I think people comes with an expiry date. Everyone has a purpose to serve in everyothers life. Its just sometimes you are the purpose to make there messy life beautiful by creating happiness and by holding their hand and taking them out of the chaos. Sometimes they serve the purpose where they do the same. And if that’s unintentionally then its a cherry on the cake. Also once the purpose is comepleted they leave in silence. And you left with no choice rather than to accept that the person is gone.
So instead of running from the situations and your emotions and instead of ignoring the flags learn to accept the flags so that it becomes easy to accept that the person you are happily and madly in love with, will leave someday. And hence you have to accept so that it becomes less hurtful.
Its mandatory to keep your heart guarded, cause you never know what intentions of the other person are. So don’t hurt other’s and don’t even get hurted by others…