Some People comes with Expiry Date’s

It is always hard, Leaving your comfortzone. Leaving those places which you created with lots of efforts and time. But, Thats the whole point, right? To grow. We can’t stand in a place and be with everyone.

We loose people. They loose us. We loose our bonds. We create new bonds. That’s all part n parcel’s of our lives.

So if everything is created by universe, then why do we Get hurt?

We get hurt because of low acceptance. Its very important to accept the change. As it is said change is inevitable. If we start accepting and less sacrificing it will all be alright. We should accept the fact that whoever is in our life has to go someday. You can’t force people to stay or you can’t make them stay forcefully. So, if they stay forever they are your keepers and if they get expired they ain’t worthy.

So if they bring you happiness, Be happy. But if they brings you headache, trust me leaveee ASAP.

I think people comes with an expiry date. Everyone has a purpose to serve in everyothers life. Its just sometimes you are the purpose to make there messy life beautiful by creating happiness and by holding their hand and taking them out of the chaos. Sometimes they serve the purpose where they do the same. And if that’s unintentionally then its a cherry on the cake. Also once the purpose is comepleted they leave in silence. And you left with no choice rather than to accept that the person is gone.

So instead of running from the situations and your emotions and instead of ignoring the flags learn to accept the flags so that it becomes easy to accept that the person you are happily and madly in love with, will leave someday. And hence you have to accept so that it becomes less hurtful.

Its mandatory to keep your heart guarded, cause you never know what intentions of the other person are. So don’t hurt other’s and don’t even get hurted by others…

Tough situations?

Life sometimes puts you in such situations where you don’t find ways to back off. Its like how can you hurt someone intentionally?

Like sometimes you don’t even love a person you just love the way they love you and then the ego comes, what if they love the different person just the way they loved you.

Confusion right?

Thats what people are, confusing. They always want more and more things. But they forget that in the journey there should be a pause sometimes. Like there should be a stopping point where they should also understand what the other person feels or what they want.

We get confused between wants and needs. Like you should want a person and not need a person. Its like your need change according to the different situations but what stays or constant is the want.

You cant change the other person or you can’t control other person . All you can do is love them unconditionally and that too without expectation. And if they stick around thats love. Because it is rightly said, “love never dies, we learn to live without it…”

Reassurances?

Why do we always ignore the signs which are right in front of us waiting for us to be seen?

What is our life?

Its a loop which keeps on repeating some patterns rather than the same patterns. It is very important that we analyse all the patterns of our lives just to make everything easy. The thing is we keep chasing things that we forget to chase ourselves in the journey. We forget to look deep within us but we tend to analyse other peoples lives and fix them. I am not saying fixing others is wrong but fixing ourselves is also important. Its very important to analyse our traumas and find solutions rather than just running out of it and seeking validations from others. While we seek love in others we ignore loving ourselves. I know all these years we have been taught to love others and not how to love ourselves, but its never too late to do right things. When we are in deep love we get to know what things we want from life and from our beloved partner as well. When we are happy and loved inside we attract good things. It is rightly said that our thoughts make things happens. When we make positive affirmations and manifestations the universe tries hard for us to make things happen. We live in such a imaginary world that we tend to get confused between what real world is and what reel world is. And in the process we loose ourselves. Why do we need other peoples reassurance? Seeking always leads to hurt.

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