Sometimes , It’s better to not have hold of everything coz while growing up I always needed that urge of getting hold of everything which later on led to attachment issues. Those baggages which were supposed to be thrown off, unknowingly I made crown of it. Sometimes its hard keeping up with other people who doesn’t understand who u are.
So the question arises should we hold on to them??? or let go of them????
My whole life I was constantly trying hard to understand this, but as we grow up we try to declutter these things. Constantly we fight decluttering the messes which none other than but we brought to ourselves, but what’s ahead?? how to deal with the pain? the aches?? no one teaches us that, wherein we should be taught of is how to “let go”.
Letting go is not that hard we say to others but when it comes to us why it directly or indirectly gets hard?
Living life all way, we get people who triggers the button within which we have tried hard to forget.
Maybe we choosed this life. we choosed between the choices which we knew from start what its gonna hold, but still instead of detachments we tend to choose attachments at the last. Instead of decluttering between, we choose to bring more clutters to our life which gives us not only pain but the traumas which are probably till deaths.
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